Sunday, September 28, 2008

FEAR OF FAILURE....

We all have heard about this thing known as "fear of failure". Its a very bad thing, u know. It makes u underestimate yourself and not trust your abilities. This leads u to choke at crunch moments. So even if people have faith in you, you yourself dont trust yourself and according to me it is the biggest crime you can commit. NOT TRUST YOURSELF!!! Your attitude becomes cynical and u tend to see only the negative side in all the things. The responsibilities that u can normally handle easily, suddenly become an uphill task for you. Air around ur neck suddenly becomes warmer and u start sweating . Heart beats increase and you start dreading the moment when u will have to take some action or do that job or play the ball or get on the field. It can be anything. And the one thing that resides in your mind is that ," wht if i screw up this thing, wht if i dont do it properly, wht if the whole team fails because of me, " and many such things which you generally dont think of . But these things definitely spring up in your mind once you start doubting your own abilities. So this is it... I dont have any solution for it because i think each one of us has a different way to tackle this problem. We all know our strengths and weaknesses and it all depends on us how well we use our strenghts to hide our weaknesses.  

The most important thing BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND NEVER DOUBT YOURSELF.

ALWAYS REMEMBER....... YOU ARE THE BEST, UNLESS PROVEN OTHERWISE!!!

cheers!!

3 comments:

Prasad Vaidya said...

finally this is one post i will be the first to comment on!
i think i know which episode you are referring to rearding this fear of failure.
but it is quite natural and it happens to all the people all the time.
let nadya take a leaf out of this blog post and take a step ahead..........hahahaha

Advait said...

hahahaha... smart haan p

Shraddha said...

true...sumthing 2 remind ourselves of, during such times...